The most hurtful message that would affect me personally would be accusation because I’m a very open and honest person when communicating with my partner, family and friends. I’d rather be asked a direct question instead of being accused without cause and/or justification. Thankfully I have not recently experienced this hurtful message but I would respond in kind with an accusation. Yes, I believe this is a petty way to behavior but I know myself and any other response will be even more hurtful than an accusation. I would use accusation message more as an example to the other party involved. To demonstrate how hurtful accusations truly are in an interpersonal relationship….